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1. Exalted Member Thread Starter Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: South East Posts: 264

   You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner cheat? Hey guys; I was just wondering, but, if you had a partner but you didn't want to have sex with them for whatever reason (say a medical condition), maybe you are just not feeling it (imagine this is a permanent thing), would you allow them to have sex with other people? I ask because I have seen this kind of question asked before and people have always given different answers. SHORT VERSION: Right, you are in a relationship but you don't want to have sex for some reason (say a medical condition), do you allow your partner to cheat? Imagine you really loved them, more than anyone else. EDIT: I don't think people understand what I am asking. I mean, let's say you were told you had a major blood vessel on a certain appendage or body part and any form of sex could possibly be life threatening. Would you allow your partner to have sex with other people because he can't have it with you but he does love you. Last edited by Scienceisgood; 8 Hours Ago at 16:24.

2. Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea Short version isn't that much shorter. If they loved me more than anybody, a requirement for me to feel that way about them, then I would most definitely not let them. If it was me, who wasn't getting the sex, but it was for that girl I adored in every way shape or form. It'd suck, would I do it? Ofc.

3. Adored and Respected Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Bath

   Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea I wouldn't be in a relationship if I never wanted sex. If I temporarily didn't want sex for whatever reason, like a medical condition, then no, I would not let him cheat. But I'll go with the "break off relationship" option, as this is a permanent thing.

4. Full Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 81

   Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea Wtf, what is this situation? They got STD but you still love them?

5. Banned Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 136 Warning points: 1005

   Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea I wouldn't be in a relationship if I never wanted sex. If I temporarily didn't want sex for whatever reason, like a medical condition, then no, I would not let him cheat. But I'll go with the "break off relationship" option, as this is a permanent thing. You need to have sex when in a relationship? You are sad.

6. Exalted and Worshipped Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,308

   Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea You apparently fail to realise that there is more to a relationship than just sex. How old are you? 12?

7. Banned Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 136 Warning points: 1005

   Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea If that's the case then a lot of people on this forum are sad, and people you know in real life. If they rely on just sex, yes they are sad and consider it a great factor of a relationship... even worse! Besides having a baby, why else should people have sexual activity?

8. Adored and Respected Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Bath

   Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea Besides having a baby, why else should people have sexual activity? For pleasure and intimate closeness. You're quite happy to not have those things in a relationship?

9. Benevolent Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 863

   Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea You apparently fail to realise that there is more to a relationship than just sex. How old are you? 12? But this doesn't cancel the fact that sex is an important part of the relationship, may not be the most important but it is important, and for sure it has a positive or negative impact on the relationship .

10. Full Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 125

    Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea What's the point of monogamy if you're not ****ing each other? I don't get it. In fact what's the point of monogamy if you're not raising a child? Someone please explain this to me. are you for real? what kind of a messed-up response is this?!

11. Exalted Member Thread Starter Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: South East Posts: 264

    Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea I don't think people understand what I am asking. I mean, let's say you were told you had a major blood vessel on a certain appendage or body part and any form of sex could possibly be life threatening. Would you allow your partner to have sex with other people because he can't have it with you but he does love you.

12. Full Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 125

    Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea You wrote 'what's the point of monogamy if you're not raising a child'. So if you've got a boyfriend, but don't have a child together, then it's totally fine for him to cheat?!

13. Re: You're in a relationship but you didn't want sex, would you let your partner chea I don't think people understand what I am asking. I mean, let's say you were told you had a major blood vessel on a certain appendage or body part and any form of sex could possibly be life threatening. Would you allow your partner to have sex with other people because he can't have it with you but he does love you. I wouldn't do any "allowing". I'm not in control of the guy/gal. If they want sex, fine, go get it. You wrote 'what's the point of monogamy if you're not raising a child'. So if you've got a boyfriend, but don't have a child together, then it's totally fine for him to cheat?! Why would you enter a monogamous relationship if you aren't having a kid in the first place? Please respond

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